You have to talk with your ex ( I'm assuming you have children) to make things as normal for your children as possible. The children often suffer the most during the divorce and you don't want to make things more difficult for them. One way you can keep the lines of communication open is through email. When you email your ex make sure keep them short and without and snide remarks. Keep the emails about the children; their schedules and activities. You can also use email to coordinate pick up times for visitation. Do not use the emails to attack your ex !!!! Again it is your best interest to keep the lines of communication open, however if it is not possible to talk without hostility email can be a viable option to avoid conflict.
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